Sometimes people look good just because they are confident.. not because they are good looking. That's why most lead singers look attractive even though they're not really that good looking. I mean if he was not a lead singer of some famous band, he'd probably be the normal 'mat' to you on the streets. Nothing great.
Of course there is another hidden factor, why people (especially the girls), are crazy about these singers. It's the 'I got him!' good feeling that they have. Other girls, don't get him.
This is the real, REAL reason why we fall for good looking guys (It's true.. think deep, very deep - analyse ur feelings.. break it down to the simplest form). The fact is that, the 'wow' factor to 'good-looking' person is only a while and when you still don't get that person. Once you're close and you see the good looking person regularly.. you don't feel the 'wow' everytime - the effect is normalised already. In fact, he becomes like some other normal guys.. with the normal guy problems. Of course, you have in fact more problems with good looking guys. You're constantly jealous or on the look out to ensure that he doesn't end up with any other girls.
However, the 'I got him!' feeling still remains.. especially when you see other girls jealously looking at you and him. This 'I got him' feeling is related to wanting to always have something better than others.
So, if we learn how to be thankful for what we have, and accept what others have as their rezeki, then it's easier for the girl to be attracted to guys - not for the 'I got him!' factor, but because the guy is truly good for her. And if you want the guy to look good - just help him be confident in himself and portray that confidence (yet, humble!). He'll look good. Confident BUT arrogant guys, DON'T look good, no matter how handsome he is - meluatkan lagi ada..
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