malay movie scripts

just now i read about an actor who was in the midst of preparing a movie script.

it got me thinking.. i guess almost all of malay movie scripts were written by people within the industry - and most of these people, i guess, do not mix much with the masses.

That's why then, i guess most of the movies are something, quite out of fantasy. Attempts to reflect the REAL life can sometimes be seen, but still not enough.

It's ok for slapsticks or comedies. But love stories, family drama - should reflect something more REAL. It's quite important actually - so that people do not think there is a perfect answer to everything, and girls do not get the false hope or expectations of getting someone as romantic and nice and as perfect, as reflected in the movies. Because, here's a NEWSFLASH. there is no such thing as a perfect answer or person.

Although we don't admit it, these movies DO HAVE an impact on our thoughts. Yes, I am a firm believer that the media, including the movies, shapes the minds of the masses. So it's important to use back this medium to get to the masses.

So I was thinking, perhaps i'd write a script for a malay movie.

Actually there is one ready. It's about a chance meeting of 2 people from different world - a successful muslimah lady and a guy who is a blue collared worker. But I need to go over it again and again. Think about the message I'm trying to put across.

Of course, if you know me... i don't know when that'll happen. but, at least i finished the draft.

Ok, so after i go through a few edits, i'll just have to find a few tens of thousands of dollars to produce this movie.

right.

Birth

(bagi menunaikan permintaan beloved SIL..)

actually, there's too many stories from different perspective to tell, about having a baby.. X 4 some more.. macam berjela2.. boleh buat buku..
So, i'm going to concentrate on the C-section thingy - general or regional anaesthesia.
kalau nak dengar about other things like nursing and preparation and what not.. nanti tell me ok.

ok..so here we go..

Hadi
1st experience.. semua nak super duper..nak deliver kat Mt E.. ingat paling expensive paling best.. but REALLY buang2 duit aje..
i still think in terms of room, food, service - KKH is the best - based on my last experience about 5 yrs ago.

ok.. so the 1st one tu.. macam anxious kan.. some people say, the baby may come a few days or up to a week before the 'EDD' (expected due date).
But Hadi, decided (Allah SWT da tentukan) that he wants to come out on the due date itself. So at about 2-3 am that morning, i felt a 'pop in my tummy. The water bag burst. I told hubby, and i told him i'm still fine.. so we shud just wait first.

About 5am, i timed the contractions.. macam 5 mins apart, so i told him.. maybe we shud start to go.. but I REALLY felt like having prata, so could we stop by Adam Road for prata before heading to the hospital? He agreed. So with contractions still going on.. i had my prata.

Kat hospital, i was wheeled in.. and after 2-3 hours more i cannot bear the contraction pain.. i asked for epidural. The pain was gone like magic.
After that I was sent to a big comfortable room.. since I didn't feel the contractions nor the pain, I was happy watching TV siang2 hari.. but my cervics was still like 2-3 cm. SAMPAI malam! like 11pm.. at last the doctor said.. it's too long, and i'm getting dry inside.. let's do a caesarian sect.

I cried.. i wanted a normal birth (well, not so normal with the epidural) but.. anyway.. no choice.. baby's safety more important.
I was wheeled into the operating room and they put me on GA (general anaesthetic) and I went to sleep. I woke up a bit when i was wheeled out, and remember seeing my mother in law.

About 3am in the morning, they woke me up to see my baby. it felt funny - especially when u don't see him coming out from you.. it's like they just brought some baby over and say.. this is your baby. .. BUT.. he was the cutest baby, to me. and so ok.

It took me about 3 days i think, before i could walk about.

Hanaa

.. was 2 weeks late.. after EDD.. still takde rasa apa2 pun.. at last masuk hospital.. they induced me.. pun macam tak nak keluar, but i started to feel the contractions. Oh yes, Hanaa onwards.. i was at KKH. Again, cannot bear the pain, asked for epidural.

So, they were monitoring the baby.. then they told me, the baby's heartbeat is irregular. they felt that it would be better to have the baby out asap, so that they can monitor it directly, in case of anything.. So, another emergency C-section for me.

Another disappointment on not having normal birth, and another GA. I was asleep.

This time, about 2-3 days jugak ah.. before i sit up and walked.

Eema
After 2 C-sects, this one was planned. So, boleh choose date, I chose 1 day lepas raya, so that i can go jalan2 first.

This one also.. i took GA - although i've heard of regional anaesthesia, where you get numbed from the waist down. But no thank you. Takut.

The delivery for eema was more like, everything according to plan. No surprises. I'm contented.

I still took about 2-3 days to recover, i mean before i walked about in bearable pain.

Nadhrah
I was having flu, on the appointed date that i was suppose to deliver her, by C-section again.

So this time, a lady doc on duty, she came by my bed and asked me how I was. Then she asked if I want general or regional anaesthesia. 'GA of course' i said.
'Why don't u want to try regional? she asked. So i told her la.... ermm..i'm afraid. She assured me it was OK. I won't feel any pain at all.

She STRONGLY encouraged me to go for regional. In terms of safety, she felt it will be better for me, cause i was coughing and having phlegm. And she also said, it's much better than GA, i'd be able to see the baby, and I'll recover faster. Because under GA.. the 1st day alone.. is recovering from the GA itself..

I was still scared, so i asked.. what if i insist on GA - she said, then i may have to wait 2-3 days more, until i recover, so as not to take the risk of chocking on my phlegm.

Ok, NO WAY am I going to sleep with more than 10kg of tummy for one more day! I'm tired! I've been counting the days to delivery since the last 90 days or so.. I'm not going to wait another 3-4 days! So ok lah.. go with the regional anaesthesia. Tawakkal.

On the operating table, they asked me to curl up into a foetal position, then they injected something into my spine i think.. it hurts, but not A LOT.. terperanjat and takut aje.. i think.. after that.. slowly.. i began to lose feeling from my waist down.. it felt funny.

The doctor poked to check.. i didn't feel anything.
So he said.. we'll start now. There were 2 doctors.. so they were chatting with each other, as they started to operate - macam kita berbual kat kedai kopi.

After a short while of waiting.. i asked,' So, when are u going to cut?' they he said,' Oh.. we cut already.. now we're taking the baby out.
WHAT? waah....

they did a bikini cut. so.. after that, they pressed on my tummy to 'push' the baby down and out. Then, they brought the baby close to me..
MasyaAllah.. a different kind of feeling.'

Pastu the nurses took nadhrah to be cleaned, and the doctors started to stitch me up. The giving birth part was only about 10 mins.. but the stitching back up was about 20.. because they had to stitch, i think, 3 layers? when he pulled to tighten the stitch IN my tummy.. i felt a tug - not painful at all, just felt a tug. after they finished stitching me up.. i was wheeled to a recovery room, and then 1-2 hour later back to my room.

I was afraid that when the anaesthesia begin to wear off, that i might feel intense pain macam nak pengsan.. but no lah.. ok ok jugak. In fact the next day, i tried my best to sit up already and started to walk about on my 2nd day. it's true. i recovered faster. And i prefer this experience better than the GA.

Pain? sure la. Since i never had any natural birth, i cannot imagine the pain THERE.

Bearing a baby for 9 months, the last 3 months being most trying, because of the weight on ur tummy, you cannot sleep!
Imagine carrying 2 sacks of 5 kg rice on ur tummy for 3 months.

It's what all mothers go thru kan? Cannot back out last minute right?
Sebab tu.. sayangilah mak korang.

Ok la.. itu aje cerita Birth untuk kali ini.

jangan marah eh, aku cakap

Kalau aku cakap, kau jangan marah eh.
Aku rasa kan.. deodorant is a necessity, not a luxury.
sebarang type of deodorant lah
asal tak keluar bau dari ketiak tu.
Pergi lah pakai - it affects your image.
Image seorang Muslim, is suppose to be clean.

tak tahu lah.. kalau orang dulu2 rasa bau badan ni ok.. sedap.
But zaman sekarang dah lain.
Lagi2 kalau kau kerja selalu jumpa orang
example macam kat restaurant.
kau serve makanan - you'll have your ketiak at people's faces.
kalau diorang bau kan.. tak best.
dah 2 image tarnished - you and the restaurant.
then orang tu.. takut hilang pulak selera nak makan.
heh.

Aku tahu, orang selalu tak cakap pasal ni
tapi aku concern la jugak.
So, jangan marah la aku cakap.
Ini untuk kebaikan kau.

victims of the norm

the norm, is what you keep seeing and doing.
it slowly becomes a norm,
no matter how wrong or abnormal or ridiculous it was before.

and we have become victims of these 'norms'.
we often forget, that what's norm,
does not mean it's right, doesn't mean it's good either.

they say it's cool
we say it's cool
we're playing simon says.
we don't think.

And we so easily get shaped,
into what syaitan (which comprises of men and jin) tells us is the norm.
We have no self control or the ability
to stop and think and defend ourselves,
our souls.

practical examples.
i think i don't need to dwell into pre marital sex,
gays & lesbians,
jeans that show your you-think-it's-nice-but-it's-err-ahem butt & panties.

it includes
employers taking advantage of employees, emphasizing on discipline at work and disregarding their discipline towards their own family
big TV companies, getting people to sign off every right the people have, if they want to appear for 1 stupid minute on their channel.
companies practically shoving totally unnecessary products that they manufacture, into consumer's faces
deceit as a part of the marketing ploy - it's what they call 'standard marketing tactics'

when do we wake up
and even realise the reason for living
we have got to save our selves and our souls.
and stop being victims of the so-called 'norms'

men of understanding, are we?

this verse, moves me.
much more when heard or read in it's original language.

Behold! in the creation of the heavens and the earth, and the alternation of night and day,- there are indeed Signs for men of understanding,-


Men who celebrate the praises of Allah, standing, sitting, and lying down on their sides, and contemplate the (wonders of) creation in the heavens and the earth, (With the thought): "Our Lord! not for naught Hast Thou created (all) this! Glory to Thee! Give us salvation from the penalty of the Fire.

Al Quran Ali-Imran 3:190-191


إِنَّ فِي خَلْقِ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالأَرْضِ وَاخْتِلاَفِ اللَّيْلِ وَالنَّهَارِ لآيَاتٍ لِّأُوْلِي الألْبَابِ

الَّذِينَ يَذْكُرُونَ اللّهَ قِيَامًا وَقُعُودًا وَعَلَىَ جُنُوبِهِمْ وَيَتَفَكَّرُونَ فِي خَلْقِ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَالأَرْضِ رَبَّنَا مَا خَلَقْتَ هَذا بَاطِلاً سُبْحَانَكَ فَقِنَا عَذَابَ النَّارِ